Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Happy Birthday Baby

Happy Birthday Haley Kate!
Here is a preview of Haley's big Birthday party. There are lots of Birthday and beach pictures to come' when I have a chance to upload, sort, and edit them all. Work, three birthday celebrations, a beach trip, and a move have put me a little behind again.
And, we still have one cake left to eat when the rest of our boys get home from their retreat. I think this baby's first birthday week has been well celebrated. Our waistlines will all agree!

Monday, August 9, 2010

Mommy and Me Monday: Slip 'n' slide



Here are 2 recent pictures of haley and I.
The first is not a great photo but it's from a wonderful day. Our bums are both very wet from going down the giant slip 'n' slide they set up at work. It's over 100 feet of tarp stretching down a fairly steep hill. I took one of my kids to a meeting and returned just as they were finishing up. Since the slide had pretty much cleared off I got to take Haley down the lower half 3 times. The first time we ended up going a little too slow and it was more of a scooting trip. But the next 2 times Haley had a big smile on her face as she sped down the hill. It is definitely something she'll want to do again.
The second is from dinner with Zach and my mom. After an afternoon of packing boxes we went out for a nice meal. Haley was very cheerful and we enjoyed laughing together over noting in particular. She is delightful.

Saturday, August 7, 2010

11 Month Update

11 Month Update and the month in photos- Finally caught up

Stats
Height: 30 1/4
Weight: 20.3 lbs.

Booster Seat: Haley got a new booster seat. She modeled it well. The purple polka dots with the yellow and orange booster seat make me smile!

Riding with Style: At the beach she got to ride in the bus without her seat belt. We probably should not have let her, but look at that girls toothy grin. Don't worry it was a one time thing, every other time she travels, even a short distance, she is buckled safely into her car seat. She had a blast looking out the window and giggling with mommy and daddy.
I think she will be quite pleased when she turns to face the front.

Playground: Just a typical day at the local playground. We love that the playground is just about 3 blocks away and we can walk down to it often. What do we do there: eat some snacks, go down the slide, swing, and fly with daddy.

Tupperware: Haley's favorite drawer in the kitchen at the home is the one full of tupperware. She makes a bee line for it every time I'm in the kitchen. .

Food glorious food: Trying watermelon, eating berries, and getting fed. Haley's meal time is never dull. The guys at the home love trying her snacks and replenishing her tray when it gets low. They also like to sneak her their food, which I have to get onto them about sometimes. "Marshmallows and Mountain Dew are not for babies"

First Beach Trip: Playing with mommy and daddy at the beach; almost as good as playing with the bucket.

Baptism and A Visit: One of Haley's "Big brothers" was bastised in a lake near the home. We went to Ichiban to celebrate and start our huse vacation a day early. Haley liked watching them ocook the food in front of her on the Hibachi grill. She also got to meet some of the girls I used to coach on one of our days off.

My little water baby: She loves to splash in the water. The town pool or her packyard seal pool, it makes no difference to her. She also likes watching the boys play in the lake when we took them all camping. Unfortunately she never got to go in because some trouble brewed before she had the chancee But, there was a nice beach she got to crawl around on.

Baby Toys: Haley likes playing with her toys. Some of her current favorites are her shopping cart, her wiggle ball, her table, her bath toys, and her stacking and nesting balls.

Unexpected toys: mommy's old cell phone, a ball, a marker, and a fossil.

Celebrations: The 4th of July, The parade, and her first closing ceremonies at camp. Seminoles of course won!!

At Home: Trying to climb over her barricade, Sleeping soundly, and grimacing from her glider.

Shenanigans: Climbing stairs and giggling with gramma and grandpa, visiting with Montana, riding around in the bus.

More Shenanigans: A birthday party at the beach. Playing with Daddy. Watching a 3D movie at the Imax.

More Developments and Habits

You went to the beach and went camping for the first time.

Your hair is still looking like it might turn red.

You still stick out your tongue some and make the “haley face” I haven’t heard you razz in a few months but you love to make a “lala” type sound while you stick your tongue in and out.

You can stand up petty well but do it best when you’re distracted by a toy. When you realize your standing alone you tend to get scared and sit down. I think you could walk, you just aren’t interested. You know you’re faster if you crawl.

You took one step, but it was in a pool so it didn’t fully count. You like to walk with the shopping cart.

You are a quick crawler and we practice crawling up the stairs several times a week. You always get to the top and want to go down head first.

You are very clingy when you want your parents. When mom and dad are silly it makes you smile and do your silent giggle. You get shy around new people but you do well going to them if the time is right and it’s on your terms. (it’s better if I put you down and let you go to them instead of placing you in their arms)

You love your big brothers from Watkins, especially AW and JL. You especially like it when Big Red calls you booger butt.

You are our little ladybug. The kids at the home all adore you, you are their Haley bug.

You are a little explorer. You love to go off on your own, and eat dirt. Even if no one is following you. You are not one to stay in the lines or be held back by boundaries. You are clever at finding your way around things, even if it means climbing on tables, over your parents, or under chairs. You are also developing a great memory, you know right where to go for the Tupperware, the checker boards and more.

You love toys that light up and make noise.

You started sleeping with a sound machine, which was a big improvement on most nights. You slept through the night some more but you also had several nights where you would wake up 3 times screaming until I fed you and gave you Tylenol. Sometimes circumstances don’t allow for crying it out. Plus growing teeth is tough work, you should know, you have 6; with an adorable gap between the front 2.

Your binky is almost always clipped to you as you crawl around dragging it in the dirt. You don’t seem to mind and you like having it handy. You love having one finger in the side of your mouth, in your ear, or even up your nose. It’s pretty cute and funny.

You will eat almost any vegetable or cereal, even if you don’t like it, as long as it’s drizzled with fruit or I alternate with fruit every bite or two. You love ice cream and will fuss loudly for more. You have expanded your palate with very few rashes as a reaction. I think you just weren’t ready yet in the past when food gave you a rash.

You love pulling books off the shelf, toys out of the box, clothes out of the drawer, night light out of the wall, and Maggy Monster off of the top shelf and into your crib.

You like pushing the buttons on your mobile when you wake up and playing with your toys contentedly until we come to get you.

You are a happy baby, and people often brag about how god you are. You are observant and sweet. You love to snuggle and place your head on our shoulders. You love to go back and forth: from mom to dad and back again. You love to get down and crawl around, in movies and at church, whenever it’s most inconvenient to track you down.

You watch TV by standing in front of the screen. You love the computer even though we try to keep you away from it, especially after you ruined the cord twice. You are Giga Byte because you love to sink your teeth into anything electronic.

You like pulling on the filing cabinets at work and rocking back and forth. You open doors when they’re ajar. You are blocked from our dining room by a chair stuffed with a body pillow, you like to stand up by it and peer into the forbidden abyss.

You clap so well and you figured out how to clap with the crowd while we were at the beach, although it still startles you when there’s a loud round of applause. You did a great job of clapping at closing. You would get startled, look around, and then join n every time. You also wave, give high fives, and blow kisses.

You started dancing a little to the beat of music. You like to shake your shoulders.

You love holding books and exploring the pages. Of course that means we can only really read you a story if another book is in your hands. You still find great joy in going to the bookshelf outside of the office and pulling as many books down as possible.

You love baths, unless you have a fever. Then you scream like a banshee. You hate having your clothes put on. You would rather be in your birthday suit. It’s a fight to get your diaper on, but you do ok if you’re on your changing table. I seriously have never seen a baby scream and squirm so much when they needed to get dressed.

You like talking and singing, especially at church and when you’re in the back seat of the car. You just want to make sure your voice is heard too. and make sure that you are the center of attention.

You have a phone of your own that you love to turn on and chew on.

You get along well with other babies. You like dogs, even big dogs like pacer, you even let them lick your face. You are also fascinated by cats; You like to pet tigger, the kitten next door who runs into our house, but you haven’t really figure out how to be gentle yet.

You understand much more than “let go” but you don’t always listen. You are starting to understand commands like “come here” and you will follow mom around most of the house. The tops of your feet and your knees are always caked in dirt, and sometimes even bruised up. But you have no problems crawling over rough surfaces and paved paths. You are not that easily deterred.

You still hate when long dresses get under your knees and make it difficult to crawl quickly.

You charm everyone you meet with your sweet smile and they all agree that you are a beautiful baby.

You nod yes and no at the funniest times. And you head-butt me all the time, especially in the jaw, ouch!

You have an incredible ability to find things on the floor, that seem to be invisible to the naked eye, and then stick them straight into your mouth.

You love swinging on big swings and baby swings. I thing we will try to get you one soon.

I love flipping you around, on and over my shoulders, and than placing you on the floor to crawl around. You tuck your head perfectly to lead to where you want to go, on your back or tummy. You love to wrestle with mommy and daddy.

You always look for things even if I try to hide them. You reach for things when they drop, even if it means lunging for the floor. But you also have a neat sense of when you are in danger of losing you balance and falling.

You like playing the piano.

You like to try to unroll the TP and pick little pieces of it off.

You have been practicing saying momma, daddy, and up. You’ve kind of said other things, but none have really counted. You are good at the “ba” sound.

Your pincer fingers are still so cute, although you’ve started pinching yourself a lot, and pinching me too. You make the milk sign, but not really on purpose. The awkwardness of your hands is about my favorite thing in the world.

You throw fits when you don’t get your way, especially if you’re sleepy, hungry or teething.

You usually just nurse 3-4 times a day you. You can eat 2 containers of gerber food plus some puffs in one sitting. You have also almost figured out how to drink from a sippy cup, but only if we feed it to you.


You laugh when I say boogitty boogity boo. And when you hang upside down.

Friday, August 6, 2010

Friday Favorites- July

Another list of blogs I have enjoyed reading over the past month. You may enjoy some of these opinions and articles too. Just click on the titles that interest you. Happy exploring :)

on downs syndrome- enjoying the small things

Photography tips part 2- I am momma hear me roar.

How to crochet a butterfly- little birdie secrets




Nursing cover up tutorial- TaDa Creations


Babymooning- Progressive Pioneer






be secure. period @ little bit funky



homemade sidewalk paint- hip mountain mama

enjoying nature and learning too- the adventures of motherhood


More from Graveyacarridherrd Fields

As I said in my last post last Friday we took a trip with the home to Graveyard fields. Here are pictures of our day.

To start the trip we went straight to the blueberry patch. Haley had a great time helping me find ripe blueberries. I had been putting them in a bucket, but once I took Haley out of her backpack she made it clear that their appropriate spot was in her mouth. We sat next to one bush and she helped me pick the spot dry, so we headed across the path and into another spot rich with berries.

Daddy came too to help Haley find the bluest berries of all. She grabbed them from the branches and from our hands, with her fingers and her mouth. When it comes to blueberries she is dedicated.

As we hiked down to the waterfall Zach gave me lovely orange flower. Haley quickly stole it from my ear and began to pick it apart one pedal at a time. She also tried really hard to put it back on my ear once only about 1/3 remained. Her arms weren't quite long enough.

Down at the waterfall Haley and I watcher several of the kids jump off of a rock into the water and then swim around. I was worried that the water would be too cold for her to enjoy. We eventually found a little pool of water that was shallow, isolated from the larger pool, and that had been warmed by the son. Haley was blissful.

Her first order of business was to pick up all the little rocks in the water and place them on the larger rock out of the water. I think she would have done this for hours if we could have stayed.

Next, she did some serious exploring.

Finally, She decided she was thirsty and she needed a drink.

Zach did the honors of carrying Haley back to our meeting spot when the time arrived. I was glad that I had her for the downhill part of the trip, especially since there were so many stairs. Zach didn't mind since he got to so some intense maneuvering around the rocks.

Haley Finally Got some real juice. (instead of possible infested, unfiltered, creek water)
We had a picnic by the buses before driving home. One of our guys crawled under the bus to escape the sun, he looked like a bug taking shelter under a rock.

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

Graveyard Fields


We went on a trip with our kids to play under a waterfall and pick fresh blueberries. Our little blueberry was a fan. I would help her find some ripe blueberries on the bushes then isolate them for her. She started picking them herself, first with her little pincer grasp, and then with her teeth.

I love my baby!!

She is her daddy's daughter :)

Friday, July 30, 2010

Going up... and some thoughts on the developmental race.

I believe we have a little climber on our hands.

On the same day that Haley took her first step she also decided to climb a ladder to the loft at her grandpa's house. My little monkey never ceases to amaze me. It took her about 5 minutes of trying to finally work out the mechanics and muster up the courage to climb up a step on the ladder, but she did it, all by herself. It was pretty adorable to watch her fuddle through the process. And very exciting to see her exert her independence at accomplishing the task she set for herself.





About 2 days later, she accomplished a similar task at the playground. It made me smile because I had just been expressing my envy to another mom at the fact that her almost 1 year old (her birthday was the next day) had been walking for a month and a half. As Haley stood up on the 2nd rung of the playground ramp the other mom was impressed with Haley's climbing, and tried to get her daughter to follow suite.

There's a lesson in all this, or at least an observation...

It's funny how there is this unwritten competition between moms for our children to achieve tasks faster and earlier. We feel their early achievements somehow make us better moms, super moms. But in reality, the timing in which your baby accomplishes milestones has very little to say about your parenting abilities. Babies do things at their own pace, and while one may walk at 9 months they may not really talk until their two; another may be streaming words together before they can run around the yard.

Even with that knowledge it is difficult to stop judging ourselves against our babies accomplishments.

This is not a pattern I want to set up for Haley's life. I do not want to pressure her into doing something she's not ready to do, or make her feel that her worth is based in her abilities more so than her character. This doesn't mean that I won't encourage her to 'step' out of her comport zone, like today when she practice walking to me. (I only got one step again, but she did stand herself up many times). It just means that I hope her self-worth does not waver with her accomplishments or lack there of. I want her to know she is loved for being, and not for the things she can or can't do.

As a parent, all through Haley's life I want her to achieve any things and do well. I would love for her to be on the starting line for whatever team she's in, I wold love for her to be the lead in the school play, the valedictorian of her class, the chief of her tribe at summer camp. But the fact is that my love for her will not waiver even if she never accomplishes any of those things. My worth is not found in my accomplishments, it is found through Christ, and the same is true of my little girl.

It may be difficult but I have to stop comparing my baby to all of the others around her and instead focus on the wonderful things that make her uniquely mine. I have to let her know starting now that my love for her in unconditional. I have to stop the thoughts in my mind that crave for her to accomplish things for the sake of pride.

Haley is a blessing and even if I can't brag that she is walking yet, there are a thousand other wonderful things I can say about my daughter, things much more valuable and important than milestones and highly developed gross motor skills.

Of course I will still be really excited if she walks by August 11th. I wish the prideful desire to brag on her wasn't so strong, but even if it's silly, I love to shout about her accomplishments for the world to hear. But, walking or not, every day she makes me smile, and that is more than enough.